True Sportsmanship
High school sports is all about competition but sometimes you don't win. What do you do after a big loss? Mope, hate, blame game? Not the Monte
Vista high school basketball team. After their playoff loss, they got money together to help their rivals go the state championship.
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Generation WE
Think the youth of today isn't interested in world events? Think they're apathetic about politics, the economy, and social issues? Think again.
There's a new movement by affluent teen philanthropists changing the world
around them, one step at a time.
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Man With A Mission
How do you take a fledgling high school football team and turn it into one of the nations most elite powerhouse football programs? Read
the inspirational story of one man's destiny to teach young teen boys the real meaning of what it takes to be a successful teen athlete.
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High School Boy's Basketball Team Raises Money For The Team They Lost To
Coach Powers was having trouble getting over his team's loss to McClymonds High in Saturday night's California Interscholastic Federation NorCal Division I boys basketball championship game.
Then the Monte Vista coach was approached by the family of one of his players. They had read the story in Tuesday's newspaper about McClymonds not having money to cover food and lodging for its trip to Sacramento for this weekend's state championship game.
The family wanted to rally together to raise money to donate to the Warriors — the same team that ended the Mustangs' season with a crushing 46-43 loss. Right then, Powers' mood perked up.
"I still had the hangover from (the loss) Saturday night," Powers said. "This has really been a nice cure for that."
Within hours, Powers had sent out an e-mail to parents within the boys who had participated in the state playoffs and $1,100 had been gathered from donations by players and parents of both programs.
"I think it speaks to the spirit of competition and what it's really all about," Powers said. "You certainly went in there trying to beat them, and it was a good basketball game. But at the end of the day, somebody needs a little help, and this is the spirit of giving."
Powers spoke with Mack coach Brandon Brooks to inform him of the donation Tuesday. Brooks was shocked to hear the news. "That's amazing, that the team you beat in NorCal, their parents want
to help out with your cause," Brooks said. "That's unheard of."
Coach Brooks, who also fielded calls from 15 to 20 others who were looking to help, said the team will have enough money to cover its expenses.
"We're OK as far as donations for this weekend," he said. "It's too bad that we had to come to this point, but I very much appreciate people helping out."
Coach Mack is also receiving a corporate donation from 24 Hour Fitness on behalf of its Hoops 24 youth basketball program. Company CEO Carl Liebert has a son, Jacob, who plays for Monte Vista, and he serves as the team's scorekeeper.
"Our team members are really passionate about athletics," said Wendy Yellin, public relations director for 24 Hour Fitness. "Some of our staff members from Hoops 24 have worked with junior varsity players from McClymonds, so we thought this was a good cause to support."
The parent who initially spearheaded the money raising effort seeks no credit, declining to comment and requesting his name not be made public.
"They're coming from the standpoint of not really wanting publicity and just wanting to help them," Powers said. "This is just respect for a team that deserves to go up to Sacramento first class. "... (McClymonds seems) like a good group. I thought they were very gracious in victory."
And that is sportsmanship unheard of at any level of sports. If only the Mega Million Dollar NFL and NBA players would spread the wealth down to aspiring athletes this world would be a better place.
A group of Kenyan orphans is tasting milk for the first time. On a train platform in India,
teachers are giving lessons to children whose families force them to beg from passengers.
And in Thailand, health workers are showing Burmese refugees how reduce
their chances of contracting HIV.
What might surprise some is all three projects are largely being funded by teen students.
Meet the new philanthropists - Teens, teens with innate computer
networking skills, affluent family connections and the one-click ability
to bear witness to global poverty.
"Their sense of justice is different than ours was growing up," said Sue
Schwartzman of the Jewish Community Endowment Fund, whose youth foundation
gave away $204,000 in global charity in June. A portion funded the train
station schools in India.
"I think a lot of affluent teens understand that their lives are great and
when they see these pictures from around the world it's not OK. They want
to make other young people's lives OK, too," Schwartzman said.
And the nature of teen activism is becoming increasingly global. It's a direct result of our
increased ability to communicate outside of our regular social circles, our easier
access to global travel, and more contact with international students in
schools and universities.
This generation of teen high scholars became painfully aware of global
politics as middle scholars on 9/11. They are also the first set of
students to be taught by teachers who were required to do community
service in order to get a high school diploma. That lesson of giving back,
or paying it forward, is becoming part of their psyche.
From MySpace's "One" clickable charity campaign to Al Gore's inconvenient
truths or U2 frontman Bono's Product Red push for Africa, this generation
is steeped in a popular culture of giving to create change.
I think 9/11 showed teens that something is wrong with
our culture, that we can't solve the world's problems anymore with
individual competition and self-interest and teens want to get
involved, make a differnce, create change.
Borrowing from the simple church collection plate strategy, some students
started collecting dollars in their own school and neighboring school districts
to raise money for global causes. In 18 months, they raised nearly $26,000 from students,
enough to build a classroom for Kenyan children who were going to school in a horse barn,
put 60 desks in an empty classroom in Malawi, buy two milk cows for a
Kenyan orphanage and ship 452 bicycles to Africa so children wouldn't have
to walk for miles to get to school.
This year, some Northern California students helped prevent young girls from a life of sexual
slavery in Nepal. They raised enough to buy 20 piglets for the Nepal Youth
Opportunity Foundation, which gives parents the animals to try to dissuade
them from selling their girls to brothels. Once the piglets mature, the
parents can sell the pig for $50 - as much or more than sex traffickers
would pay for their daughters. Kind of hard to believe this still goes on but it
does.
In another project in Nepal, teen students finished construction on a three-room school for 84
primary students who were attending class under a tree. It's astonishing to see what happens when
the students realize that their choices are between the regular or video iPod, between Juicy jeans
or True Religion, and then they meet people who have to decide which child to
feed
While building the classroom for Naro Moru Secondary School in Kenya, the
teen students visited the sprawling Kibera slums in Nairobi. A
Kenyan youth led them over a gutter and through a hole to host them in his
10-by-10 foot wooden shack. "I was worried about how the American kids would react," said Macheru
Karuku, director of SEANET, the Kenyan nonprofit that oversaw the school
construction project. "I was encouraged when I talked with them later and they realized how
lucky they were to be living in good houses back in America, adding that
they would never forget what they had seen," he said.
Teen giving is expanding beyond the privilege of the privileged.
This year, the John and Marcia Goldman Foundation of Brentwood, California, gave
$10,000 to Eastside College Preparatory School in East Palo Alto, California, to start
Project Give. The middle school students, the majority of whom come from low-income
families, spent the year researching nonprofits before deciding to parse
the money among a handful of Bay Area charities dedicated to cancer, AIDS
and leukemia prevention. The sixth-graders were inspired to host an auction and buffet and recycle
cans to raise an additional $350. Project Give was such a hit that the students are already geared up to
fundraise again when school starts.
Their next big cause? Africa.
Get involved: Sustainable Environment and Agriculture Network (SEANET)
Nonprofit based in Nanyuki, Kenya, responsible for building Naro Moru
Secondary School with funding and labor provided by teens
through the One Dollar for Life program. Contact
Macheru Karuku, karukum1@yahoo.com
When you drive by the campus of De La Salle high school in northern California, you don't see many signs of the
football powerhouse this campus houses. The unassuming school grounds, along with the very modest Spartan
football field, makes it seem like this could be any high school in the nation, but it's not. De La Salle holds the record
for most consecutive games won (151 games in 13 years) and continues to win games playing the nation's top elite
football powerhouses such as Long Beach Poly, California; Kahuku High School, Hawaii; and John Curtis Christian High
School, Louisiana.
De La Salle continues to rank among the top high school football programs in all the polls and what the team
lacks in size they more then make up for in precise execution. What makes this west coast football program most
remarkable is head coach Bob Ladouceur. A calm, unassuming coach that seems at peace with himself, he coaches
his players in manner unlike any other coach in the history of football. Coach 'Lad' focuses on a players strengths
and builds the character of each boy, introducing love for other teammates,
perseverance against huge odds, and
tolerance of homosexuality. This remarkable man is the very reason Spartan football is such a huge success.
De La Salle is a Catholic Jesuit high school with conservative values and
ideology. Students usually go on to
prestigious universities and the alumni consists of some of the best athletes and scholars the nation has to offer.
The doctrine concentrates on building character and encouraging intelligence. Attending De La Salle is an honor. It's
a private school and attracts the best students the Bay Area region has to offer. Students carry the Spartan
tradition with pride knowing they're getting one of the best educations at one of the most elite high schools in the
nation.
*Sexual orientation of
athletes is
not
implied.
Bob Ladouceur came to De La Salle in 1979. At the time the humble football program didn't even rank. Coach Lad
brought his own brand of coaching turning selfish teen boys into selfless teen role models. He has created a culture
based on timeless values where teen boys hold themselves and each other accountable. The players don't fight to
win, they fight for a belief in what being a Spartan stands for. "Kid's respect true humility and that you stand for
something more than winning," Coach Lad notes. "They'll fight for you and your program if you stand for more than
that. It all boils down to what you believe in as a person, and I'm talking about how life should be lived and how
people should be treated. Teen boys understand all that. It's a whole package of things that have nothing to do
with standing in front of a team with a piece of chalk. You can know how to block and what play to call, but it has
no meaning unless the kids know who you are. Our boys fight for what we stand for."
Coach Lad is the only person I know that can hush 800 boys in a all-school assembly just by walking up to the
podium. He's an icon even though he doesn't even clearly understand why. "To this day he doesn't know who he is"
his assistant coach says. "That's the funny part. That's what makes him who he is though."
Coaches across the nation always want to know the secret to winning so many games, but there is no secret.
There's nothing that can be manufactured, packaged, and distributed. It's a thousand different threads wrapped
around a fundamental truth. De La Salle doesn't consistently win because of anything Coach Lad does. They win
because of who he is. He has broken the game down to its DNA and discovered the secret to success. It's simple
but it's not easy.
It's a lot of hard physical work. It's getting up at 5 A.M. to get to school on time to lift weights. But what's even
more difficult is getting a player to understand it's more than just football. Along with the physical demands of
training, Coach Lad trains the mind of the athlete. He makes players step back and examine their relationships. On
and off the field. To Coach Lad this isn't just a job, it's a life mission. "I don't even know if I like football that much,"
he says. But when all eleven of his players are playing as one, not for themselves but for that person next to him,
and they're playing with passion and every ounce of effort they can summon, it can become a symphony of male
adolescence.
The De La Salle Spartan football team is the most publicized team in the country. The practices are open to any
player that feels compelled to practice with the best. What is kept secret, however, is the team meetings that are
held at different player's homes during the week. Parents host a dinner and then the team usually goes to the
garage to hold their weekly team meeting. Not a whole lot is known what goes on behind the closed doors (team
members are sworn to secrecy) but what little is known is teammates prepare for that weeks game, expressing the
desire to play hard and to purposely select another team member and promise that they will accomplish a set of
goals specifically for that player. These meetings can get emotional, with boys usually getting watery eyes and
expressing their love for their fellow teammates. The meetings form a bond so strong it allows the team to meld into
one giant force, ready to take on whatever gets thrown their way, regardless of a teammates race, strength, or
even sexuality (although a conservative Catholic, Coach Lad has repeatedly shown his support and acceptance of
the possibility one of his players could be gay. Every player is an equal, every player matters).
No one really knows exactly what makes the Spartan football program such a success but one thing is certain; boys graduate from this school a much better person. They don't just graduate with a diploma, they transform into young athlete/scholars with an understanding of what it means to be an outstanding role model in today's society. Needless to say the De La Salle program is an inspiration and a desire that all high school athletic programs reexamine what it means to be a real winner since they have the power to shape the youth of future generations to come.