Boardshorts
*Sexual orientation of athletes is not implied.


EMO


Emo, yes it is short for emotional. But, there is more to emo then hair and looks. Emo is a state of mind. Most people, made them selves appear emo. While in reality, they have to much hope to be emo. Emo is much like goth. But, goth is Darker. Emo is more emotional, harder to fake. Yes, some emos cut themselves, but there is more than that. Emo is one of the hardest things, to explain. People hate emos, because they view us as suicidal, cry babies, or just weak. That's NOT what emo is. Suicidal yes, at times. But, don't judge me for being emo. It's not what I chose to be. It's just what I am.

From the music with strong emotion and feeling, unlike hard rock or this is more of an alternative way to let your feeling be known. Emo is not only a classification or a type of music it's also taken over the way one expresses themselves by dressing. It includes the tighter fitting pants to the dyed-black or dark hair with it covering your face. The longer hair in front with the spikes in the back is also a more Emo- or emotional look to dressing. Emo is also being known as for the hot emo guys and emo girls kissing. From pictures all on the web to the music videos. Hot emo girl to girl and well as hot emo guy to guy is becoming more and more adventurous and more open concluding; Emo meaning being comfortable with oneself. Its a more direct way of altering the feelings one has without words, just emotion.

Some say music is not a type of music. That it is more of a fashion and a way of feeling, hence the emotional. Just recently people have been considering emo to be a genre or music.. Taking back Sunday is one of the many bands people consider to be emo.

Wondering why everyone hates emo? Not all emo people are cry babies or suicidal. Many emo kids come from families which are having serious issues whether it being money issues or what have you.

I think emo is just another label, but my definition of it will be for real. Personally, i used to cut, but I stopped. Take it from me. It's hard to stop! I am bi, but I'm not afraid of it! People shouldn't judge us for what we do and who we are. Emo is a music genre, but also a state of mind. If you're emo, don't be afraid of it. It's just who you are! It's perfectly normal to have a sensitive side, although I'm sassy sometimes. I'm really sensitive when 90% of the time. I love being who I am, though I get bullied a lot. I don't care. Well, in my opinion, emo is just how people describe over-sensitive people. I write tons of poetry, and I'm in middle school. I am not ashamed to say I like girls, ever since I was 9,I have liked girls. I can't help how I feel! But over the summer, I've changed a bit. I'm not AS sensitive, but I still am. I don't let people put me down. Emo is just about being sensitive and expressing how you feel about something. If you get suicidal thoughts, talk to someone, trust me! Don't make the mistake I did. I am a lot better off without blades.


The End Is Near

It might come as a surprise that nearly 15 percent of all teenagers think they're going to die young. When you factor in that 10 percent of that group is potentially gay you have a huge population of apathetic gay youth, leading many to drug use, suicide attempts and other unsafe behavior.

Based on a survey of more than 20,000 random teens, the data collected challenges conventional wisdom that teens engage in risky behavior because they think they're invulnerable. The majority number of teens surveyed said they take chances because they feel hopeless and figure that not much is at stake. Their behavior threatens to turn their apathy into a self-fulfilling prophecy. A study over seven years shows teens who thought they would die early were much more likely than optimistic kids to be subsequently diagnosed with AIDS. They also were more likely to attempt suicide and get in fights resulting in serious injuries. The magnitude of kids with a negative outlook was eye-opening.

Adolescence should be a time of great opportunity and carefree exploration. But a large minority of teens feel like they don't have a long life ahead of them. The study suggests new way parents can detect kids likely to engage in unsafe behavior and potentially help prevent it. Most teens act withdrawn and apathetic but if the parents see strange signs with their teen, it's best sit down with their teen and keep an open mind. Open discussion about their teens sense of fatalism might be a great way they can figure out if their teen is at greater risk so they can take the steps to bring it to the attention of their doctor.

It was once widely believed that teenagers take risks because they underestimate bad consequences and figure it can't happen to them. It's extremely important to talk about how perception of risk influences risk-taking behavior. New research bolsters evidence for an even stronger case against the invulnerability idea.

Fatalistic teens weren't more likely than others to die during the study; there were relatively few deaths, 94 out of the 20,000 teens. The researchers analyzed data from a nationally representative survey of teens grades 7 to 12 who were interviewed three times. Of 20,594 teens interviewed in the first round, 14.7 percent said they thought they had a good chance of dying before age 35. Subsequent interviews found these fatalistic teens engaged in more risky behavior than more optimistic kids. The study suggests some teens overestimate their risks for harm; however, it also provides evidence that some kids may have good reason for being fatalistic.


[return to Gay Surf Report]


Bookmark and Share
mens fitness
Mens Skin Care